Why does it seem so perfect? why is it that we don't see the imperfection of it? Is it because there is none? or is it because we just don't want to see the imperfection of it. I tell you the truth, it is only because we don't want to see it. Looking at things the more positive way is always the way to a more happy/positive relationship. It isn't perfect, nothing can be perfect when it comes to human beings. Only God created the perfect. The perfect world for humans to live in, the perfect brain and body for humans, the perfect plants and everything inside this world that are God given are perfect. When it comes down to a relationship between a person and another person, nothing can be perfect. (cause even if it seems perfect, there's always a little imperfection in it) Humans can never be perfect. Only God can.
Then you may ask, Then what makes it seem so perfect? Why isn't there any problems? Well, there is. In relationships there are always challenges and problems. It is only when both partners help each other and TOGETHER they solve their problems, TOGETHER they face the challenges. How? Like the saying, there cannot be two heads on a human body, but if they work together they can get things done. Yes, thats exactly how it should be.. COMPROMISE. Without compromise there will be no decision made. But how? LEARN. yes. LEARN to compromise. If a mistake is done by one of the partners there isn't any harm in saying sorry. Even if something gone wrong and it isn't your fault, there isn't harm in saying sorry. Sorry maybe a word, but can mean a lot when you say it at the right times. Do not abuse it.
What if the problem is within the relationship itself? That cannot be solved. It all comes down to how badly an individual WANTS his/her partner and for the partner vice-versa. A relationship is "an emotional or other connection between people" according to the dictionary. It is a connection BETWEEN people and in order to have a lasting LOVE RELATIONSHIP, both partners HAVE TO WANT EACH OTHER BADLY ENOUGH. I was kinda trying to explain this to a few of my friends just the other day, they don't seem to understand it. Hopefully whoever is reading it can understand. Well, both partners if they WANT each other BADLY ENOUGH they would be able to go through many tough times and still make it through loving each other. Nothing should be able to stop them from wanting to be with each other every single day. The only thing that cannot be helped is that, most people DON'T KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANT until they LOSE WHAT THEY HAVE AND WANTED. This really cannot be helped.
If one side wants the other so badly he/she would die for his/her partner, but the partner doesn't want the relationship = GAME OVER. There is no point for that person to linger hoping for the relationship to get any better. Welcome to earth people.... Find someone who wants you as badly as you want them. Humans will be humans. they aren't perfect. Life is life, there are bad times, there are good times. In those bad times you may feel like shit, but end of the day its an experience to learn from. Its those experiences that make you a better person if you look at it the positive way. If you have a narrow mind and view everything in the negative point of view, you'll be screwed up for the rest of your life. You'll live a miserable life - only because you want to be miserable by thinking negatively.
-Signing out-
-Core
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